It may just be me, but I’m incredibly bored of reading BDSM and anal sex in romance fiction. Can’t we have a bit of variety? Old fashioned things like blow jobs, maybe? A bit of kink that doesn’t involve pain or dominance games? Those are all fine and well but people can do other things in bed. And I would like to read more of those other things, because it’s started to feel like almost every sex scene I read in m/m or m/f is exactly the same as the last.